Recently I heard bout a breakup. I know both the guy and the ger. I am closer to the guy but I personally am very against what he did. He broke up with the ger on the first day of exam. It is true that you should be frank to her once you know its impossible but please..... use ur brains and reason. Use ur heart to feel...

The first reason why i was so against his actions was that he is a dean lister and he should know the impt of studies. How can he ever ever do that to her? Have he considered the emotional turmoil he is putting her thru? He cant remember all the beautiful times they have spent together?? That cant last them thru even for that 2 weeks? The reason u used to like her is not valid animore??

The second reason was that he witness what i went thru, how I was totally shattered after my recent breakup and how I cried. I told him how sad i was and i told him neva ever to do what my ex has done to mi. He patted my head and ask mi not to be sad and with that sympathy in this eyes, i really thought he understood and now i am furious coz obviously he din! he does not have a heart coz he din care. He wouldnt care even as a fren.

How could he have just fallen for another ger? Teenage infatuation?

I dont know how the ger can forgive him. Coz if i am her i cant and i will not even attempt to. My ex and I have broken up for more than a month but if he told mi now that he has found another gf, i will be so furious with him i will cast him outta my life. I will not forgive him in the near future regardless of how generous i am and i will not see a need to be gracious.

I dunno how the ger is feeling rite now but i hope that she is coping well and she is smiling once again. Time will heal everything. Trust me coz i have just been thru that! After some time, u feel numb and gradually the hurt and the pain disappears. The brain remembers but everything that is detrimental to urself disappears. For mi, the hurt is disappearing and i can see it gone soon. I hope it applies to her too! All the best ger!

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